How To Keep A Long Distance Relationship Alive (LDR Goals)

 

If you’ve found someone with whom you connect and love, you probably don’t want to end your relationship just because you don’t live in the same city. Even if you only see each other a few times a month, you can still have a healthy, satisfying relationship (or even a year). Being in a long-distance relationship has its own set of issues. When you’ve been living together for a long time or have been based in the same city, being apart hurts a lot more. Physical touch, staying awake in bed and talking for hours, and getting intimate are all important aspects of a relationship that are hampered when it is long-distance. If you’re dealing with the difficulties of a long-distance relationship, here’s how to keep it going.

 

 

• Avoid Excessive Communication

You don’t have to talk 24 hours a day to keep your relationship going. Many couples believe that they must make up for the distance by doing more. This is not correct. And it may only make matters worse. You’d get tired of each other quickly.

 

• Start A Countdown For Your Reunion

There’s nothing better than having a constant reminder of when you’ll finally be reunited. If you plan to meet soon on a specific date or month. For example, Christmas or a family member’s wedding. You can customize everything about a countdown app, including having it appear on your home screen, for free.

 

• Keep The Fire Alive Even When Physically Apart

So what if the two of you aren’t together? Modern technology allows you to spice things up in the bedroom from afar. Make good use of technology. Swap sexy pictures of each other, talk about what you’d like to do the next time you meet and have a video call where you can masturbate in front of each other. To increase pleasure, you can also use sex toys while doing. Send erotic messages or watch erotic movies.

 

• Make The Expectations Clear

Every relationship carries the baggage of expectations, and unfulfilled ones are frequently the cause of relationships deteriorating and people drifting apart. Setting clear expectations in a long-distance relationship is therefore critical. You don’t want to be doing things that your partner finds objectionable. Discuss what you expect from each other in terms of communication, dedication, loyalty, emotional and physical support, and so on.

 

• Send Love Letters

Do it, even if it is very old-fashioned. They are a sentimental way to express your love and gratitude. You are not required to write about every single emotion. Simply express your desires in life. These letters are a way for the two of you to form a strong bond.

 

• Surprise Them With A Visit

Of course, planned trips are wonderful, but a surprise is even better, especially if your partner has had a difficult week or has something significant to celebrate. Furthermore, the fewer people you inform in advance, the less likely the secret will be leaked.

 

• Gift A Personal Object

Give them a personal item that they can keep as a reminder of you. It could be a small pendant, ring, keychain, or a collection of songs and videos. We frequently assign meaning to insignificant objects and items in our daily lives. This is why something so insignificant can mean so much to someone.

 

• Plan A Virtual Date Night

You can have a date night no matter where you are thanks to the internet and video calling. Set a time and date, then cook dinner and share a bottle of wine. The most difficult part will be saying goodbye when it’s time to call it a night!